Acceptance and rejection are two sides of the same coin
Seeking to become something and trying to get away from something both always result in that something becoming a fixed part of our Reality and thereby a blindspot.
Natural Law always allow gentle balancing of identity.
Sometimes by exploring strong opinions to bring an obscure part of consciousness forward. Sometimes by forgetting what used to be a central part of what we considered important.
Natural Law closes toxic circuits and allows you to work with Nature/God directly, instead of feeding on a false system as an intermediary.
That doesn't mean there's no system. It means it's a way of being that's too immense to comprehend, explain or copy.
How does this happen?
It happens when we go where where we don't want to go, but know we need to to expand our capacity for love.
It happens when we step out of codependent circuitries and allow love to take its place in our body.
The pain is really staying with the void the toxic patterns leaves behind in our body before we fill it with love from within.
It's already happening inside our body. There's nothing to do, we can just discover what's been happening since the dawn of time